The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
What Women Actually Want for Valentine’s Day
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Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and if you’re stressing over the perfect gift, don’t worry—we and the girls have got you covered. Contrary to popular belief, women don’t just want generic chocolates and stuffed animals (cute, but err…let’s elevate things a bit). Whether you’re shopping for your partner, your bestie, or even treating yourself (because I mean…why not?), here’s a curated list of gifts that women actually want.
1.Something Thoughtful & Personalized: The Gifts That Really Matter
The best gifts aren’t about the price tag—they’re about the thought behind them. A customized piece of jewelry, a photo book of your best moments together, or a heartfelt handwritten letter can mean more than the most expensive, impersonal present.
TGLM Pick
A custom nameplate necklace or a personalized star map of a special date.
PS: If you really want to give a gift that keeps on giving, TGLM’s Lover Girl Reminders are the perfect way to remind her just how amazing she is, every single day. Because the best kind of love starts with self-love.
18K Gold Mini Custom Nameplate Necklace -
$142
This custom name piece features a modern gold chain attached to your choice of a pavé or gold nameplate. Featuring the personalization of your choosing.
2. An Experience to Remember
Instead of another material item, why not gift an unforgettable experience? A spa day, a surprise weekend getaway, a concert to see her favorite artist—these are the things that create lasting memories.
TGLM Pick:
A staycation at a chic boutique hotel.
A spa day, a surprise weekend getaway in a luxury resort - From $800
This hotel in Ojai, CA also features an award-winning on-site spa and golf course.
3. Luxury Self-Care Essentials
Every woman deserves to be pampered. Luxe skincare, silk pillowcases, a plush robe—give her something that makes her feel like the queen she is.
TGLM Pick:
A high-end candle/ room scent, a satin pajama set, or expensive perfume.
4. The Gift of Sanity
Forget the overpriced roses—sometimes the best gift is a clean kitchen, an uninterrupted nap, or just a little peace and quiet. Whether it’s help around the house, time to herself, or the sweet, sweet sound of no one asking her for anything, these are the real MVPs of Valentine’s gifts. Because love isn’t just in grand gestures—it’s in the little things that make life easier.
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5. Spicy Times: The Gift That Keeps on Giving
Chocolate melts, flowers wilt, but a little quality time between the sheets? Now that’s a Valentine’s gift to remember. Whether it’s a slow, romantic night or something a little… spicier, intimacy is about connection, pleasure, and making each other feel wanted. So light the candles, turn up the heat, and let the real magic happen.
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6. Dinner: The Way to Her Heart (Especially If She Didn’t Have to Cook It)
Whether it’s a fancy night out, a cozy homemade meal, or takeout from her favorite spot, dinner is more than just food—it’s quality time, effort, and a break from figuring out what’s for dinner… again.
✨ TGLM Pick: Make the reservation, set the table, or just show up with her go-to order. Bonus points if there’s dessert!
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7. Money: Because Flowers Are Cute, But Financial Security Is Hotter
Let’s be real—sometimes the best Valentine’s gift isn’t wrapped in a bow, it’s deposited. Whether it’s funding a dream, covering a self-care splurge, or just saying, “Treat yourself, babe”, money is the love language that never misses. After all, financial security is sexy, and so is a partner who gets it.
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8. Tech That Makes Life Easier
For the woman who’s always on the go, practical but stylish tech gifts can be a game-changer. Think wireless earbuds, a sleek smart mug that keeps coffee hot, or a portable photo printer.
TGLM Pick: A New Phone or Noise Cancelling Headphones.
Bose QuietComfort Headphones - From $349.00
These headphones deliver legendary noise cancellation in a classic, comfortable design with up to 24 hours of battery life to keep up with any lifestyle.
9. A Stylish & Functional Handbag
A well-crafted handbag is always a winner. Whether it’s a statement crossbody, a chic tote for work, or a mini designer bag, a quality purse is a go-to gift.
TGLM Pick: A trendy yet timeless bag from The Row or Celine.
The Row 90's Bag in Leather - From $1090
Top handle bag in finely grained calfskin leather with softly rounded edges, leather piping and adjustable slim leather strap.
10. Flowers—But Make Them Luxe
Flowers are a Valentine’s classic, but let’s upgrade from the last-minute grocery store bouquet. Opt for high-end preserved roses that last a year or an extravagant fresh flower arrangement.
TGLM Pick: Venus et Fleur’s Eternity Roses or a wildflower bouquet from a local florist.
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The Best Gifts Come From the Heart
At the end of the day, the best Valentine’s Day gift is one that feels personal and thoughtful. Whether big or small, make sure it shows love, effort, and an understanding of what she truly enjoys.