Date
January 31 2019
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THE GIRLS LIKE ME
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THE LIKEABILITY PROBLEM

THE LIKEABILITY PROBLEM
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Blessing - March 22 2019

The sad part is when it’s fellow women that are constantly trying to micromanage you and make you fit into their idea of womanhood.
Some say things like “you’re not homely/calm/meek like Funke. If I had a brother, I’d give her to him”.
And because there was a preconditioning to be the perfect wife material, you try to bend and break trying to fit in the image of the homely, docile girl.

I’m breaking away from these toxic friendships and mindset

Lira - February 26 2019

Our society has always hated women with boundaries.
Boundaries mean we can’t be used.
This infuriates society as it believes that in all things a women does, the end goal is having a pleased man.

In tertiary, if we went to a party, and a girl suddenly wanted to leave, she was “dramatic, and shouldn’t be taken anywhere”.
And if a boy wanted to leave “He was assertive”

We think women are difficult to deal with, because we have a lower propensity to tolerate “bad” things from them.
Truth is women are the ultimate, sacrificial sheep.

Ronks - February 06 2019

This, this is everythinggg!!❤️❤️

Theothergirl - February 05 2019

No truer words !!!

Joke - February 05 2019

Amazing 😍😍😍

Jeremy Onyeka - February 05 2019

brilliant.

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